It’s only intelligence – evolutionarily, it’s in our best interest to please our friends. When we were in an age when survival was key, we required a good back-up system to keep us alive. Thus, we to be able to keep them happy. Almost any other kind days are long gone, and still the fear remains – that other folks won’t like us. Folks who do…[Opširnije]

I have worked with clients who initially believed their abuser loved them and was acting out of genuine feeling; later they came to discover this had not been the dilemma. It is crucial for healing to see that the abuser was not acting your own love, but out of selfish desires and perhaps weakness. A number of of the cases I also been involved…[Opširnije]