Rami Beracha created this blog to discuss the world of venture capital. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.

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Communication is one of the biggest issues. It’s almost like an open-air minefield. It begins one second after the first encounter with a person and ends with a massive explosion…

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We make the biggest mistake of thinking we’re fully aligned with the expectations of our partners. The one thing we do agree on is that our partner is not afraid to widen this gap ….. There isn’t anyone on the planet to warn us to the upcoming clash.

There are many possible sources of miscommunications. Most are due to personality differences. People who are squared are more likely than liberal individuals to be misinformed, while aggressive personalities might have trouble in coordinating expectations with passive. This is simple to spot and everyone is aware of squared from moderate and passive from aggressive.

Imagine if they were different? Consider if there’s a personality gap. It’s not something any person has ever investigated, warned of, or discovered. !

Let me introduce you ladies and gentlemen, to the new type of personality that we all have: the FULL CIRCLE personalities in contrast to the half-circular people. !

This analysis offers the ability to make better decisions about your behavior. Determine what personality best represents what you’re like Then, try to determine what your relationship partner’s personality is. If you realize that you are of distinct types that you can be satisfied. This could be the reason behind some of your differences. If, however, you are two of the same type I’m sorry to say that I’m unable to tell you the reasons why your relationships look awful.

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And here we go…

There are two kinds of human beings that are called humans. Some of us can be split into two groups that are self-contained while others are completely at ease in their own space. Sure, he would like to be a part of a group, and sure, he’s always looking for someone to share his life with. Absolutely! It’s true! … But, he’ll be able to survive without his dream partner until he finds one. After he has found the person of his dreams and is ready to share his life with his hopefully complete circle of a partner.

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The „half of a circle“ people on the other side have an accomplice. When they find the miserable animal and they are determined to keep go. They’ll attempt to live with the victim as if were one of them and not give up on the concept of living together. The Halves will never sacrifice their love for each other. They will stare at each with the same gaze from a distance for the rest of their lives. Their desire to merge with their other half and form a unit will only be fulfilled by an intimate relationship.

A striking distinction between these types is the choice to let go a partner. The entire circle will undoubtedly get rid of a partner who is losing their chemistry rapidly. The ‘half-a circle’ type , however, will redefine the meaning of having an enmity with their partner. They’ll say they’re ‘holding onto this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with a better upgrade.

Imagine the most amazing dance, when a „half a-circle“, and a ‘full-circle“, are trying to create one another, but without being aware of their differing geometries. The Half smiles and makes two steps forward. The Full is a bit frightened by this unwanted invasion a bit scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfort zone . Although the Half believes that the Full made an innocent wrong move, and he graciously compensated by taking another step ahead, the Half is more concerned and begins to feel angry. They aren’t sure why, but they aren’t using the correct terminology and don’t know how to explain the situation. They go to the wrong places. If they had known that one half is a Half and the other is Full it could have helped them …

Although there isn’t a single conclusion, there are options you could adopt.

1. Find out who you really are

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2. Find out who your partner is

3. Realize the difference.

3. Respect this difference!

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One conclusion can be drawn“Live and let live.