Rami Beracha is the writer for this blog. The focus is on venture capital. Rami is Co-Founder of Sosa.

It’s a big problem when people misunderstand. It can be a minefield, which is our mistake. It starts just a second after coming into contact with someone and then ends with an astonishing explosion…

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The biggest mistake we make is that we assume total alignment in each other’s expectations and do not even try to understand the expectations of our partner. We’re usually in total alignment with our partner except for one thing : he doesn’t overlook the chance to increase the gap in expectations . There is no one to inform us of the upcoming confrontation.

There are numerous factors that can lead to miscommunications. The squared personality is more likely than those with liberal personalities to communicate poorly, while aggressive personalities might have trouble getting their expectations in line with passive. This is easy to see – squared can be distinguished from liberal, while aggressive can be distinguished from passive.

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But what if they are totally different? Imagine that there is a kind of a personality gap which exists, but we don’t know about. No one has ever discovered it and warned of it, investigated it…NOT even EVER FREUD! !

Ladies and gentlemen! Let me introduce you to a brand new personality kind that we all have in common. The personalities of the FULL CIRCLE are different from the HALF CLIRCLE personalities. !

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Note: A behavior guideline – when you read the next analysis, look for which of the two personalities define you the best, as well as try to figure out the person who your life partner is. If you realize that you’re of two distinct types – like Bono sings „we are one but we’re not the same“ – then you should be extremely happy as you may have found the root-cause for some of your differences! If you’re of the same type as me, then I’m sorry, but I’m not able to help you understand why your relationships appear to be so bad.

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And here we go…

Humans are divided into two groups. Some of us fall into the „full-circle“ category which refers to a person who is completely self-sufficient and doesn’t feel that needing an accomplice. Sure, he’s required to be around someone else, and yes, he’s always looking for one. Absolutely! It’s all true! … However, he cannot survive without his dream partner until he finds one. Once he has found the perfect one, he will be able to enjoy his life with his full circle of friends.

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Others are those who are „half-acircle“ types. Once they’ve found the miserable animal, they DO NOT LET GO! They’ll try to physically integrate with their victim in order to form one happy circle… and do not allow them to experience the dreadful reality of living shoulder-to-shoulder! The Halves will not accept any less than gazing at one another from a distance for the rest. Only intimate relationships fill their need for connection with one another and form a whole.

The choice to let go is an everyday occurrence. A partner who is no longer chemistry-wise within the circle will be released easily by the entire circle. Half-a-circle types will, however redefine the term ‘having mutual chemistry with their partner means – ‘I’m still holding onto this B..ST..RD until I am able replace them with a proper upgrade’.

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Imagine the incredible dance that occurs in which a „half a-circle“ and a „full-circle“, are trying to compete and not even noticing their distinct geometries. The Half is smiling and makes two steps in the direction of. The Full finds this unwanted invasion slightly scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he made this move by forcing the Half out of his comfortable zone . As the Half believes that the Full committed an error of his own and then took another step forward, the Half becomes irritated and takes another step in the opposite direction.. The Half.. Half.. and the Half are both pissed off. They aren’t sure why, however, they don’t have the proper terms and are unable to describe it. They go to the wrong areas. The victims could have been saved by knowing that the item they’re seeking is Half, and the other is full.

There isn’t any single conclusion, there are actions you can adopt.

1. Learn who you truly are

2. Find out who your partner is

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3. Know the difference.

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3. Respect the different!

One of the conclusions is to live and let life.