Rami Beracha blogs about the venture capital world. Rami Beracha is co-founder of Sosa.

Communication issues are a major issue. It could be a dangerous hazard that is our own mistake. It starts a second after the first interaction with another person, and concludes with an amazing explosion…

We make the biggest mistake of thinking that we are in complete alignment with the expectations of our partners. But there’s one thing that we almost always can agree on: he does not overlook the chance ….to widen the expectation gap. There’s no one to warn us about the upcoming confrontation.

There are a variety of reasons for communication issues, but they are generally caused by our personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner than liberal individuals, and individuals who are aggressive may have trouble matching their expectations to those of passive personalities. This is simple to spot – everyone knows the difference between liberal and passive from aggressive.

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What if they’re very different? Only they won’t realize it. Think about if there is an individual gap. Nobody has ever traced it, warned about it, investigated it…NOT even EVER FREUD! !

Ladies and gentlemen, I’d like to introduced you to a new kind of personality that we all have: the FULL CIRCLE versus the HALF CIRCLE personality! !

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Be aware that this is not a form of behavioral guidance. After you’ve read the analysis, try and discover which persona best represents your personality. In addition, try to figure who your partner in real life. If you find out that you belong to two distinct kinds, as Bono declares „we’re one , but we’re not the same“, then you should be content. It is possible that you have discovered the reason behind some of the differences between you! If you’re the opposite type I’m sorry that I could not assist you in understanding the reasons your relationships look like crap.

Here we go…

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There are two kinds of human beings that are called humans. There are those who are „full-circle’ that is an independent person who is completely at home by his own. Sure, he would like to connect with other people and, the truth is, he’s always on the lookout for an individual to share his experiences with. Absolutely! It’s true! … However, he will not be able to live without a suitable partner. When he has found one, he wishes to live his life, by his side with his hopefully complete circle – of friends.

Half-a-circle-shaped people comprise the remaining half of humanity. They won’t let go of their miserable animal when they discover it. To create a happy circle, they’ll attempt to integrate their victim physically. The Halves will never sacrifice their love for each other. They will stare at each other in the same way from a distance for the rest of their lives. Anything less intimate will give them the desire to connect with the other half and create an entire.

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A fascinating observation between the types is how they decide to let go of their partner. The whole circle will typically be the first to let go of a companion with whom he has lost chemistry very quickly. Half-a-circle types will, however redefine the term ‘having mutual chemistry with their partner’ to mean – ‘im keeping this B..ST..RD until I am able to safely replace them with a suitable upgrade’.

Imagine the fantastic dance that occurs when two people in a „half“ and „full“ circle try to force each other to become their counterparts. They’re not aware of their differences. The Half takes two leaps forward, far away from the safety space of the Full, who considers this sudden invasion of his personal space a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfort zone . Although the Half thinks that the Full made an innocent mistake, and kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half gets more worried and starts to feel angry. They are aware of the reason, but due to in the absence of a proper term and the inability to properly describe their plight and turn towards the wrong directions! It could have saved their lives if they had known the difference between the half and full.

Although there isn’t a single conclusion, there are some steps you can do.

1. Find out more about who you are

2. Find out about your partner

3. Be aware that there is a big difference.

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3. Be respectful of the differences!

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In reality, there’s only one conclusion.